Unexpected Meeting -- Joys of Emotion
It is my habit to visit the local temple on every Sunday mornings .
Today was no different. I visited the temple , offered prayers and thanks and
did something that I do not do usually. Just sat down on the aisle and closed
my eyes – within seconds , someone tapped me on my shoulder—As I opened my eyes
, the person asked ,” Are you Srikanth ?“ I said "yes" and then realized it was
Jeeva or Jeevanantham my classmate from school of the 1983 batch at Don Bosco .
We were seeing each other after nearly 34 years. I was surprised that he was
able to recognize me – I was surprised at myself that I was able to recognize him
– Both of us had changed so much –
We forgot for a few seconds that we were at the temple – But
quickly we moved aside – Started talking about the good old school days – Time flew
– It must have been close to 75 minutes that we got lost in our thoughts and
recollections. We talked about our teachers , the schools itself , our
classmates and so on. Jeeva told me that he was trying with others to locate
me ! That was an another surprise to me
. A couple of selfies and Jeeva told
that he will add me to the School section WhatsApp group. The funny part of
this meeting was that Jeeva has been coming to the same temple on Sundays more
or less at the same time that I go, for the past five years or so but we
never found each other. Must have been destiny that we caught up today.
By the time , I reached
home , I was added to the WhatsApp group and what an engaging day it was. I
started getting calls from many who were my thick mates at school and had
lost touch for this period of time. Most
of them were relieved that they found me .. It was joy to connect with all of
them –
I had missed a get together that all the X11 standard of the school batch of 1983 had close to Christmas. of 2017. Towards
evening , I got calls from the US , where few of them are today. Everyone excited
and delighted to connect . I was able to recollect some of the great moments
that I had with them in school – They were stunned that I could still remember
all those small little things – But what the heck –is it not those things in
life that gives us unexpected happiness ?
Some thoughts –
1.
Happy that most of them are still around and
also doing well for themselves.
2.
Those days , we had no form of technology that
helped us to connect and stay in touch – today it is possible – I remember
using something called an “ Autograph book” that we used to send around and
take address and messages from classmates during the last week of school – (
today's scrap book )
3.
Jeeva said it was Celebration Day , the moment
he saw me – He has taken on himself to keep hunting for all of us and was so
delighted that he found me today by chance
4.
The exchanges in the group was meaningful for
today and so do not expect it to be “One more Group “ !
5.
Just looking forward to the next meeting that is
being planned in March of this year
Still excited as I pen this down – after a long time ! Cool
day
PS : already two common friends from Ford who are either school
mates or share some common hobbies (
small world )
Comments
The first half of the story that you have penned in this post is equally fascinating as well !! What a triggering point for a chain of events :)
I think Jeeva was on a mission to find old friends and he was very alert.
I also know Jeeva well from my school days (first to fifth standard)and Jeeva's family lived very near to my place in Perambur. But we did not have any contact for last 25 years and he found me through another common friend about a week back and added me to another WhatsApp group....I found three other long lost friends. Vadi.
Jeevanandam